Voting for Child Porn
I was strolling through GFY (an industry board - if you don't know it then you're not in the industry) the other day when I ran into a thread where someone was asking for input on their new site. I looked and wasn't impressed. Not because the site was poorly done but because the content appeared to be composed of minors. Now, consider that I know the game. So for me to think that these girls are under age is no vote of confidence for your site, however if that's your target I suppose he nailed it. Which was the case because the website was feeding the 18 market. In his defense he hasn't done anything wrong - the content came from sponsors who all have the proper 2257's needed.
Still, I commented on the thread:
"I don't like to see children when I hit a porn site.
That's just me though."
I was simply voicing my opinion on the appearance of the content, and not stating that the content was in face children. Had I honestly believed the content WAS children I would have taken every step I could think of to make sure the site went offline.
Students told they have a ‘right’ to a good sex life: Advice from the NHS
This is my response to : http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1199132/NHS-recommends-pupils-orgasm-day-reduce-risk-heart-attack-stroke.html where the idea of promoting sexual pleasure to students is being pushed by Steve Slack, director of the Centre for HIV and Sexual Health at NHS Sheffield. Read that before you read this.
Teen Sex
The problem with teens is they simply do not have the ability to control their emotions.
It is not that they cannot enjoy sex or cannot do it responsibly, it is the simple fact that when they're horny they're going to do whatever they can reason to get off. If that means skipping the condom then so be it.
This guy wants everyone to enjoy healthy sex and that's fine as we would all agree, so they're rationing that teaching them to enjoy it is a good idea to level the playing field and make room for more stable decision making outside of peer pressure. I argue this will create a new type of peer pressure because this line of thinking goes right next to, "But my friend bobby has transformers shoes, why can't I!?" Instead we'll hear, "But Jane has a box of her own condoms, why can't I!?" And at school, "You haven't let him watch you masturbate yet? What's Wrong with you? Everyone's doing it, so should you."
When you teach a kid about something they now know it's there. Duh, that's the point of teaching, right? True, but there are times to teach things. Consider suicide prevention talks at schools. When those happen kids now realize that depressed kids hang themselves. It presents their fragile minds with new ideas and suicides go up. Look it up for yourself. The same is true for STP prevention talks. When those happen teen pregnancies go up, STD cases go up and so-on. These things put new ideas into their minds, and those minds are not ready to make decisions on these topics.
Response to Betty Dodson’s blog entry, “My Latest Thoughts on Porn”
Let me open my response to Betty Dodson's blog entry, "My Latest Thoughts on Porn" (http://dodsonandross.com/sexfeature/my-latest-thoughts-porn) by saying that I am a man who has been working in the online adult business since 2001. I think I know a little about porn, from a man's perspective.
The women in professional porn are not real in terms of appearance and mentality. Women do not look like that naturally and they certainly do not act like that in reality either. It is important to understand, as Betty said, that porn is fantasy. It is created by men, for men. It is composed of men's ideas and interests, filmed at the sexpense of the actresses willing to do these things for the money tabled.
