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27Apr/100

DVD/Premium Content Needed

xLive boasts a fully featured Mobile site designed for the iPod touch and iPhone.

xLive is growing fairly well right now, and with over 57,000 members we are able to see patterns in content selection by those users. As it turns out the most in demand genre of content right now is Gay Premium DVD content.

For those who do not know, xLive Members can purchase a monthly subscription to premium DVD content rather than spending on each DVD individually. This eliminates the need for any themed currencies or topping up accounts and allows the users to just watch whatever they want, when they want. The goal is to meet them where their needs are, and right now their needs appear to be lacking in terms of broad-range DVD selection.

At the same time, the straight market continues to grow as well, so I am by no means ignoring any particular genre.

Having said that, if you're a producer or distributor of content, please let me know and we can get started on making your content available to our growing membership.

Thanks

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9Apr/100

Steve Jobs Doesn’t Want a Porn Store


While browsing the net on my iPhone I ran into an article on TechCrunch that was centered around Steve Jobs' comment as to why Apple doesn't want to allow unsigned apps onto the iPhone. For clarity, an unsigned app simply means an app that was not acquired via the app store, and therefore not Apple-approved.

All too often I see this happening.

The comments at the end of the article are what got me involved. There was the usual Church of Apple followers, the Apple Bashers, those who demand more from manufacturers and then - this is what got me - those who were pushing the point of view that says shut up and take it. Acquiescence is a horribly dangerous mindset, in my opinion.

Here's the Link: http://techcrunch.com/2010/04/08/steve-jobs-on-why-the-iphone-doesnt-allow-unsigned-apps-they-dont-want-a-porn-store/comment-page-2/

I have a few thoughts surrounding this topic, so I commented. Here's my comment:

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18Mar/100

Sorry, I Work in Porn – We Can’t Be Friends

For those of us who work in the adult entertainment industry it can be hard to meet people outside of the industry, unless we keep our occupational details to ourselves until the person has gotten to know us better. It's not often that I run into people who can understand that my job is a job and not much more than that. The media demonizes the adult industry and sexual acts yet at the same time throws sex in our faces every chance it gets. It makes me wonder why people aren't running to adult industry professionals for a fix of some kind after the mainstream media has gotten them all excited.

If you listen to most rap music lyrics you will find that it's a verbal rendition of porn videos. Rock music doesn't get away scott-free either, but rap is much more prone to it. I'm a rap fan so I am not some pompous white kid talkin out my ass either. I am not writing about the sexualization of society by the media - I could, but not right now. Just jump onto youtube and type sexy commercials to get started.

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2Feb/100

Hello, I’m a Pedophile: RESPONSE

I ran into a forum I had not seen before while googling for something - I don't even remember what now. While on the site I saw a thread titled, "Hello, I"m a Pedophile"

I read the first post, thought for a moment, then read the rest. While reading I began to write my reply in TextEdit, and when I got to the end of the post I realized the thread was locked. Naturally.

Well, as I usually do, I post my writings here. Here's the thread, followed by my unposted comment:

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13Jul/090

Students told they have a ‘right’ to a good sex life: Advice from the NHS

This is my response to : http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1199132/NHS-recommends-pupils-orgasm-day-reduce-risk-heart-attack-stroke.html where the idea of promoting sexual pleasure to students is being pushed by Steve Slack, director of the Centre for HIV and Sexual Health at NHS Sheffield. Read that before you read this.


Teen Sex

The problem with teens is they simply do not have the ability to control their emotions.
It is not that they cannot enjoy sex or cannot do it responsibly, it is the simple fact that when they're horny they're going to do whatever they can reason to get off. If that means skipping the condom then so be it.

This guy wants everyone to enjoy healthy sex and that's fine as we would all agree, so they're rationing that teaching them to enjoy it is a good idea to level the playing field and make room for more stable decision making outside of peer pressure. I argue this will create a new type of peer pressure because this line of thinking goes right next to, "But my friend bobby has transformers shoes, why can't I!?" Instead we'll hear, "But Jane has a box of her own condoms, why can't I!?" And at school, "You haven't let him watch you masturbate yet? What's Wrong with you? Everyone's doing it, so should you."

When you teach a kid about something they now know it's there. Duh, that's the point of teaching, right? True, but there are times to teach things. Consider suicide prevention talks at schools. When those happen kids now realize that depressed kids hang themselves. It presents their fragile minds with new ideas and suicides go up. Look it up for yourself. The same is true for STP prevention talks. When those happen teen pregnancies go up, STD cases go up and so-on. These things put new ideas into their minds, and those minds are not ready to make decisions on these topics.

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24Jun/091

Response to Betty Dodson’s blog entry, “My Latest Thoughts on Porn”

Let me open my response to Betty Dodson's blog entry, "My Latest Thoughts on Porn" (http://dodsonandross.com/sexfeature/my-latest-thoughts-porn) by saying that I am a man who has been working in the online adult business since 2001. I think I know a little about porn, from a man's perspective.

The women in professional porn are not real in terms of appearance and mentality. Women do not look like that naturally and they certainly do not act like that in reality either. It is important to understand, as Betty said, that porn is fantasy. It is created by men, for men. It is composed of men's ideas and interests, filmed at the sexpense of the actresses willing to do these things for the money tabled.

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